Karma?

You know when you are dating someone you begin to adapt and learn from them and you feel like that person has helped shaped you in some way for your next adventure. But if that person has consciously warped your thoughts into something else, is it still real? Are life lessons in return fake? Is it like a video game for life? You press the button you jump. They press your heart and you feel compassion. Does it still make a difference, if maybe, they didn’t care about your heart? If someone else in a different situation presses your heart will you still feel compassion or brush it off as something else? Are humans able to reformat themselves for different situations? I think some are compable and some take what they have used either good or bad and use it in their next relationship. If someone does something bad in a realationship they person recieving that bad can learn from it and use it to gauge other people and also never use that bad to get reverge, persay, on someone else. I hate being this serious but sometimes you need to put yourself out there and ask these questions. I may need a good dose of Sex and the City to get me over this hump. Well I feel a long poem spurring from my spirit.